The woman you become when you stop abandoning yourself.
Psychology informed workshops, courses, events, retreats, live conversations and Many Butterflies - a private community for women choosing themselves, building genuine connections and growing alongside others who truly understand.
Most women who find their way here know something isn't right. They feel lost. Stuck. Disconnected from themselves. They want things to change. They just don't know where to begin.
I Choose Me 🦋
The online workshop I wish existed when I was rebuilding my life. In 90 minutes: my story, what kept me stuck for years, and the framework that changed everything. Because insight alone doesn't change your life. What changes your life is catching yourself in the moment and knowing what to do next. You'll leave with the framework that helped me stop abandoning myself, start trusting myself again and begin building a life that actually felt like mine. Live only. Choose the session that works for your timezone.
Many Butterflies
Many Butterflies is a private community where women can share honestly, be understood and connect with each other. You'll find support, friendship and women like you. All for the price of a coffee each month. A safe space to be understood. A place to belong. A place where you're not alone.
Learning to Fly
The deepest version of this work. The slow, real work of coming home to yourself and building a life that actually feels like yours. Not a life built around fear. Not a life built around approval. A life built around who you truly are. 🦋 Because the goal was never to leave the cage. The goal was to learn you had wings.
You shouldn't feel this lost.
You have people who love you. A life you've worked hard to build. Responsibilities that matter.
Yet somewhere along the way, you've stopped feeling like yourself. The joy and love you once felt for your life have slowly ebbed away.
Maybe it's an unhealthy relationship. Maybe you're overwhelmed by motherhood and slowly losing yourself. Maybe you're stuck in a job that drains the life out of you. Maybe it's cultural pressure telling you to stay small, quiet and grateful. Maybe you simply know something has to change.
But change is hard when years of conditioning, fear and old habits hold you back.
And somewhere along the way, many women are conditioned to believe that choosing themselves means letting others down.
It doesn't.
Toska understands this because she lived it herself. With a degree in Psychology and her own journey of transformation, she helps women understand the patterns keeping them stuck and find a way forward.
Through programmes, transformative experiences, live conversations and the Many Butterflies community, women discover something powerful:
You are not broken. You are not alone. The woman you're searching for is still there.
She’s waiting for you to choose her again. 🦋
“Best decision I've ever made! For the first time in a long time, I feel hopeful about my future. I have more peace and more belief in myself than I ever thought possible.”
— @philomenawatts222